For 10 years Nadia Bokody’s work has been about helping people have better sex – but there’s one predictable response “fragile” men always have.
Her husband cheated, she took him back – but the only problem was his infidelity caused an unexpected issue in the bedroom.
Safe sex during the coronavirus pandemic might soon require protection beyond just the nether regions, a study claims.
After being “shut down” for years, one husband was shocked to discover the X-rated secret his wife was keeping from him.
Think your partner can’t cheat during lockdown? Think again. Sam X reveals the surprising signs to look for.
Sex workers have revealed the position they’re relying on to keep them and their clients safe during the global COVID-19 pandemic.
We’re told any relationship is worth fighting for – but Nadia Bokody says there’s a good reason why you should break up with your boyfriend.
The couple are in a loving relationship and have a small child together – but the husband has a particular “itch” he wants his wife to scratch.
Around 18 months ago the couple went on a cruise and had “great” sex – but since they’ve returned, there’s a been a problem.
The man said his wife’s X-rated bedroom request left him worried he is not giving her what she wants – so what should he do?
What we’re like between the sheets can reveal a lot about our personalities – and it turns out, Australians are more vanilla than we may think.
We’ve had a lot of time to think lately (between all the handwashing), and if your mind has wandered to the weird and wonderful side of your intimate life, we may just have the answers.
Singles swiping right during Australia’s lockdown are still dating – but instead of meeting in bars, they are getting together via FaceTime - with mixed results.
Australians are learning what social distancing means in most scenarios … but what about the bedroom? Should you stay 1.5m away from your partner?
She loves her husband and they used to have a great sex life but that changed seven years ago and now she is desperate for help.
Research shows we’re more likely to have sex during a time of crisis. If you are being forced to stay inside, you may as well enjoy yourself.
The frustrated husband came up with the unorthodox solution as he “needs” sex a certain amount of times a day – but is it healthy?
As a high class escort, Samantha X is used to unusual requests from her clients – but this one left her feeling extremely “confused”.
Nadia Bokody went behind-the-scenes of an adult film, only to discover there’s more than one precarious detail. WARNING: Graphic content
When Kendra got married she was looking forward to a night of passion – only to be left unable to consummate their marriage for 12 years.
Everything about their relationship is “perfect” except for this one detail — so, how can it be fixed?
A woman says that sometimes she wants to have sex even if she didn’t plan on having a second date — so, what’s the best approach?
Not one to shy away, sex columnist Nadia Bokody put her intimate life on the line this week to explore the surprising world of sex therapy.
Angela and Bradford are scientists who have been married for the past seven years. They reveal how they keep the spark alive.
A woman has written of her confusion over the fact that in the past six months her boyfriend hasn’t wanted sex. Ever. What’s going on?
When sex columnist Nadia Bokody set out on a mission to learn what really goes on inside a brothel, she got more than she bargained for.
A lingerie chain has said it will have to censor an image it is free to show in the US and the UK because it would fall foul of the Aussie ad police.
It’s a nondescript building hidden in Canberra’s suburbs – but what goes on inside would make the author of 50 Shades of Grey blush.
A desperate man has revealed how his wife won’t let him touch her and never instigates sex – as well as the reason why.
A Melbourne mum blogger has revealed there’s something she won’t let her husband do in the bedroom — and she’s not the only one.
Nakedness, orgies and booze — sex columnist Nadia Bokody had no idea what to expect at her first “adult party”. Here’s what went down.
Kerri Sackville knew sex was on the agenda at an “experiential” tour of a sex toy warehouse – but one moment pushed her to the limit.
The couple are “compatible in every way”, except when it comes to the bedroom – where things are “bad”.
Egyptian Mohamed Ahmed Irbriham has lifted the lid on his relationship with the pensioner – after she said he left her “saddle sore”.
It can affect one in four men so why is no one talking about it? Nadia Bokody looks at the issue of getting it “up” before men hit 40.
The woman had been fooling around with her boyfriend when she suddenly had a “sharp pain” – leading doctors to a shocking discovery.
It’s one of the most rewarding things you can ever do in life – but it’s also a major bedroom killer, writes sex influencer Nadia Bokody.
They’d been happily married for years when she confessed something that left their relationship in tatters and him devastated.
For years, he was plagued by “debilitating” symptoms every time he got intimate that sometimes lasted for weeks. Now doctors know why.
They get paid to have sex with others for a living — but Cassie and Dorian del Isla don’t get bored in the bedroom. Here’s why.
He loves his wife and doesn’t want a divorce – but something that started going wrong on their honeymoon has driven him to despair.
According to research it’s one of the most common ways we experiment sexually – so why aren’t we talking about it more?
Melbourne mum-of-four Jessica Hood has spoken candidly about the extreme but relatable lengths she goes to for some bedroom action.
He’s 50, she’s in her 20s – now he’s demanding increasingly “experimental” sex but his latest request has left her stunned.
It’s time to clarify what “bad sex” actually means, says sex columnist Nadia Bokody. WARNING: Graphic
It’s the text almost every single person has composed at some point, usually while drunk – but here’s why you should never send it.
Forget quitting sugar or losing weight – these New Year’s sex resolutions will actually change your life – and relationship – for the better.
You’ve heard the saying “size doesn’t matter” but it doesn’t mean men aren’t preoccupied as to whether or not they stack up, writes Nadia Bokody.
Ever wondered if you’re coupled up with the wrong person? There’s a major reason why you probably are, writes sex expert Nadia Bokody.
An alarming amount of people make this mistake — and it’s so ridiculous, it’s comical says sex columnist Nadia Bokody.
When Kadie Holmes discovered her long term partner was cheating, she was hit with a second blow when he blamed a bedroom “chore”.
Bad news if you’re a man in South Korea – a growing number of women are swearing off sex and marriage in protest against the patriarchy.
Jaw-dropping new research shows we’ve been getting it wrong when it comes to female desire, says Nadia Bokody.
They’ve been married for 10 years – but for the past five, she’s been forcing him to endure something that has him questioning their relationship.
Sex workers are earning about $380 an hour through a variety of fetishes such as popping balloons and wrapping up men in cotton wool.
Every day, Scarlett Rose rakes in hundreds of dollars without even leaving her own bedroom – and she’s never been happier.
While some men think they’re Don Juan and Casanova all rolled into one, the truth is much more disappointing, writes Nadia Bokody.
Sex columnist Nadia Bokody propositioned strangers on dating apps and discovered something very unexpected.
This man worships his wife, but no matter what he does, he can’t bring himself to have sex with her. She’s convinced he’s cheating but he’s not.
He’s the former tradie whose 2500-plus pornos have been downloaded 52 million times — but one weird scene still makes him cringe.
Nadia Bokody was left furious when her boss pulled her aside and commented on her figure-hugging office outfit, calling it “too sexy” for work.
Porn director Erika Lust has revealed the top three most common sexual fantasies - and they’re not what you might expect.
She has a husband and three kids at home, but when her male colleague started flirting, she flirted back — now things have gone too far.
A few weeks ago, Samantha X revealed what a man’s job means between the sheets. This week, she’s covering all the ones she missed.
Not satisfied with the action you’re getting between the sheets? There are four “magic” words that have the power to change everything.
A man who does not understand consent must be allowed to pursue relationships despite posing a “moderate risk” of raping women, a court has ruled.
Think your partner has never faked an orgasm in bed? Think again. Nadia Bokody says all women have, the reason why is not what you’d think.
After an awkward argument, this woman revealed to her partner she was still in contact with her old “friend with benefits”.
When Maggie Wilken was just 17 her teacher began an illegal sexual relationship with her. What happened next became part of a bestselling book
Unicorns are usually mythical figures only spoken about in fairy tales, but they’ve now become a surprising attendee at swingers parties.
From tradies and cops to accountants and lawyers, former escort Samantha X reveals exactly what to expect in the bedroom based on his job.
Not getting as much action as you’d like? Nadia Bokody knows where you wife’s sex drive has gone and what you can do to get it back.
Ever wondered how it works when there’s three in the bed? Resident sexpert Samantha X reveals how threesomes really play out.
A year ago, Nadia Bokody sat on live TV and made a confession — she was a sex addict. But the truth is something even more shocking.
They’ve been together 10 years, have two children and are “best friends”. But she’s got a secret and it’s tearing their marriage apart.
Sexpert Samantha X has revealed that what we think men want in bed is in fact the complete opposite — and you could be doing it all wrong.
Nadia Bokody shares hundreds of raunchy selfies on Instagram every year — but she’s still horrified by the question she gets asked the most.
In a new weekly column for news.com.au, sexpert Samantha X reveals the juiciest secret she learned working in the escorting business.
After a year of dating debacles, Sami Lukis recently hit a major milestone and it’ll shock you to discover what it is.
Just one year into their relationship, her husband started refusing to have sex more than once a year — and the reason why is unexpected.
For years, they had a healthy sex life — but three years ago, something so terrible happened, this woman has found sex impossible.
They’ve been married 10 years, most of them happily — but something has changed to bring this man to the point of “total frustration”.
I used to dream about being a sex and dating columnist, just like Carrie Bradshaw was. So here’s my Sex and the Cityversus reality.
We all have our preferences in the bedroom but thousands of people have chimed in on this couple’s habit, declaring it too much.
A man climaxing during sex is a given, but when he demands his partner does too — for his enjoyment, not hers, it’s an issue.
She was just a 21 year old from the Melbourne suburbs when she went for the job interview that would change her life.
A woman who requires the help of a sex therapist to “obtain sexual release of any kind” has won her bid through the NDIS.
There is absolutely nothing appealing about getting one of these images and in some cases it’s downright creepy, writes Kate Iselin. Warning: Sensitive content
A woman has revealed the unusual way she stumbled into a lucrative career as a porn star, earning a huge $1300 per hour.
This week, the second last brothel in Kalgoorlie shut its doors, leaving the Questa Casa the only remaining “house of ill repute”.
A hilarious review of a woman’s personal massager gained global attention this week but it wasn’t the laughs that made it go viral, says Nadia Bokody.
A woman who made headlines after she married her husband on their first date has ended their romance to pursue an X-rated hobby.
Men have taken Viagra to boost their sex lives for years and a new injection promises to do the same for women. Should they try it?
This week, our resident sexologist, Isiah McKimmie, tackles a cheating girlfriend, a nervous lover and an undecided possible bride-to-be.
A teenager with multiple sugar daddies has revealed details of her relationship with the men, including playing dress-ups in exchange for gifts.
Kate Iselin thought she knew everything about sex work. But after meeting a street-based worker, it turns out there’s a lot she didn’t.
For Sara Bakeman, an average day is not like the rest of us. In fact, what’s average for Sara may sound strange or bizarre to us. Here’s why.
This week, our resident sexologist, Isiah McKimmie, tackles a threatening ex-wife, a dry sex spell and how often is too often for intimacy.
A British star caused a frenzy when he revealed something very personal, sending fans into a spin figuring out the racy details.
A new sex trend might be taking some bedrooms by storm. But for this married couple, the depriving nature of it didn’t go over well.